Never Be Hasty

So often it happens that someone comes onto my books and is really in a hurry to meet someone special. That is when red flags start waving in my head and I realise that this person is on the wrong track. While it is true that my clients often do pair up quickly, it is not a good thing when someone is hasty.

When you want to meet someone quickly, you are likely to make snap decisions which are not based on a good foundation. You do not get to know your partner well before committing to a relationship and this can lead to big regrets later. It is also likely that there are things you have not sorted out in your own life, which is essential before committing to a relationship.

When my clients relax and take time with their dating, it’s almost as if they get into a kind of “flow”, and things they want seem to come naturally to them. If they are anxious and in a hurry, their partners seem to flee from them.

So sort out in your mind what is bothering you, and approach dating without being too hung up on results or outcomes. Have fun and enjoy each moment for what it is, and your dating will take care of itself.

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