Treat your partner the way you would like to be treated

So often I am faced with clients who have regrets about previous relationships. They are sorry about the way they treated their partner and wish they could have a second chance. Life seldom gives us second chances and so the onus is on us not to treat life as a dress rehearsal, but to make the most of each and every opportunity that comes our way, as it might be the only opportunity we ever have. If you have a wonderful partner, be sure to appreciate him/her and not take this person for granted.

What we sow we also reap. Be sure to be planting good seeds in your relationship. It is important to treat our partner the way we would like to be treated. Better still, we should treat them the way they want to be treated. The chances are, of course, that if you do this, you are likely to receive good treatment in return, and your relationship will go in an upward spiral. This will ensure that you are less likely to live with regrets.

I wish you luck with your relationships!

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Keep an open mind when meeting your dates

So often we go on a date with all sorts of expectations. We have a list of what we want and what we don't want and some of us are quite rigid in sticking to that list. But people are full of surprises and it is difficult to put them in boxes. We ourselves would like others to give us a chance when meeting us, so we need to afford them the same opportunity.

Some people are quick and easy to get to know and others take their time in allowing us close. I myself nearly missed an opportunity when I met my present partner. He did not show all his cards in the beginning and because of that I nearly overlooked him. Thank heavens I gave him a second chance, because as time went by I discovered more and more things about him that I really like, and today we are very happy.

And then there is chemistry ... If a spark ignites between two people, the "list" often flies out of the window and the most unlikely people can pair up and be blissfully happy. Here we need to keep an open mind in the sense that we must be on the lookout for the negatives in this case, as our feeling of being "in love" can lead us into big trouble!

So keep your eyes wide open whilst at the same time expecting the best of your date. Be flexible and enjoy each moment.

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