So often we go on a date with all sorts of expectations. We have a list of what we want and what we don't want and some of us are quite rigid in sticking to that list. But people are full of surprises and it is difficult to put them in boxes. We ourselves would like others to give us a chance when meeting us, so we need to afford them the same opportunity.
Some people are quick and easy to get to know and others take their time in allowing us close. I myself nearly missed an opportunity when I met my present partner. He did not show all his cards in the beginning and because of that I nearly overlooked him. Thank heavens I gave him a second chance, because as time went by I discovered more and more things about him that I really like, and today we are very happy.
And then there is chemistry ... If a spark ignites between two people, the "list" often flies out of the window and the most unlikely people can pair up and be blissfully happy. Here we need to keep an open mind in the sense that we must be on the lookout for the negatives in this case, as our feeling of being "in love" can lead us into big trouble!
So keep your eyes wide open whilst at the same time expecting the best of your date. Be flexible and enjoy each moment.
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