Tuesday, October 6, 2009

How to approach a relationship

I am often asked: "Will I recognise my soulmate immediately or will it take time to realise if my partner is my true soulmate?"

My instinct is to go for the second option. So often we meet people we are instantly attracted to, only to find with time that they make a disastrous partner. The chemistry is there in a big way, but so are the multiple problems that go with it. It is important to have some kind of spark between the two of you, but not at such a cost.

If you take the time to get to know someone, something very special can happen between the two of you. The emphasis here is on time and lots of it. God has plenty of time and it is a good thing to let your universe gently unfold. Savour each moment of getting to know someone and don't be results oriented. Enjoy what each day brings to your relationship and don't let issues and baggage drag you down.

If you have this approach, you will have a deep-seated serenity and you will know beyond a shadow of a doubt that your life is perfect and that everything is happening the way it should. You will be contented with your life in general and you will attract good into it.

It's good that we don't know the future, because this makes life an adventure. It is a friendly universe and God is definitely working things out for the good of all of us. Just trust that this applies to your love life as well!

Visit my website to meet a variety of quality partners from whom you can choose a soulmate.

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