Love the person you find

We all find it easy to fall in love. It is such a euphoric experience. Everything seems to come naturally and we are swept away with our giddy feelings. Unfortunately this experience does not last. There comes a time when the things we found so endearing in our partner now start to irritate us, and the person we once elevated falls from the platform we put them on.

We think we will gain happiness once more by finding someone else, or turning to a new hobby or worse, alcohol or drugs. Only to find that some time later, we are once again in the same boat, disillusioned and looking for something new.

Is it not better to learn to love the person you find? Love inevitably sends us someone who will remind us of our issues that we need to work through and there is no point in running away, as the next person we meet will invariably bring up the same issues. Better to work through these issues for once and for all and to have loved someone through thick and thin at the end of the day … That someone that you once thought was such a problem may just turn out to be your soulmate and the partner of your dreams!

© 2009, 2012 Marilyn Welch

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