Never be hasty

So often it happens that someone comes onto my books and is really in a hurry to meet someone special. That is when I see red flags and realise that this person could be on the wrong track. While it is true that my clients often do pair up quickly, it is generally not a good thing when someone is hasty. When you want to meet someone quickly, you are likely to make snap decisions which are not based on a sound foundation. You do not get to know your partner well before committing to a relationship and this can lead to huge regrets as time goes by. It is also likely that there are issues you have not sorted out in your own life, which is essential before committing to a relationship. When my clients relax and take time with their dating, it’s almost as if they get into a kind of “flow”, and what they want seems to come naturally to them. If they are anxious and in a hurry, potential partners seem to flee from them. Once you have released your anxiety about meeting someone, you have set yourself free and you are in a position to receive rather than to experience lack. So sort out in your mind what is bothering you, and approach dating without being too hung-up on results or outcomes. Take your time, have fun, enjoy each moment for what it is, and your lovelife will prosper. © 2009, 2012 Marilyn Welch Would you love to meet your soulmate in this year? If you have read through my website thoroughly and feel that you would like to work with me, contact me for a FREE, no-obligation “Find Your Soulmate” session. We can then see what Perfect Strangers can do for you and get you started to meet the partner of your dreams. I am looking forward to hearing from you! Would you like to use this article? You may if you include the following paragraph with the article: Marilyn Welch is the owner of Perfect Strangers Professional Introduction Service and a sought after Relationship Mentor specialising in dating skills. You can read more of her articles at www.perfectstrangersdating.blogspot.com and download her Free Special Report “Three Ways to Finding the Soulmate of Your Dreams” by going to her website, www.perfectstrangers.co.za and sending her your details. You are welcome to email Marilyn Welch at info@perfectstrangers.co.za.