We all dream of the day that we will have a special partner who will keep us company through thick and thin. We feel somehow that he or she will complete us, make us whole, and that we will never be lonely again.
That may be true, but before we start looking for that partner, it would be a very good idea if we could learn to enjoy our own company first. Once we have a good self-image, and a certain degree of self-confidence, it is then usually easier to amuse ourselves when we are alone. We have then (hopefully) developed some good interests and maybe we even have a few passions that we are fulfilling. This makes us interesting people, people with a mission, who will then easily draw the right partner to us via the law of attraction.
The law of attraction is like a magnet, so if we desire to have good company, we must be good company ourselves and know how to keep ourselves busy with worthwhile endeavours. Then we have earned the right to have a partner who is also good company.
Visit my website to find a partner who can be that good company for you!
Thursday, June 18, 2009
Thursday, June 4, 2009
How does one handle rejection?
One of the most common things you will encounter when you are dating is rejection. The important thing with rejection is not to take it personally. The reason you are rejected has usually 100% to do with the other person and their particular frame of reference and almost NOTHING to do with you at all. There will always be people who like you just the way you are, and at the same time there will always be people who find fault with you. I see this happening with my clients all the time. As many as there are people, there will be different opinions about them. These opinions have nothing to do with you, it is just how people perceive you, according to their own unique place where they are coming from. You remain unchanged, whilst all around you, different people perceive you differently. Therefore one should not take other people’s opinions, whether good or bad, too seriously. So don’t be discouraged if you encounter rejection, simply move on to the next person to meet.
Visit my website to meet exciting people of your calibre!
Visit my website to meet exciting people of your calibre!
Thursday, May 21, 2009
Never take people at face value
We all know the saying “You never get a second chance to make a first impression”, but first impressions can be very deceiving. People are generally on their best behaviour when one meets them, and the true person usually only emerges with time. One can liken getting to know a person with peeling an onion: there are many layers covering the core.
I nearly fell into this trap when I met my current partner, with whom I am very happy. When I first met him I thought (erroneously) that he was not my type, and more or less discouraged him from contacting me. It was a year later that we met again, and then I was more willing to give him the time of day, only to realise he was almost exactly what I had always been looking for in very many ways! The first time I met him he did not show all his cards, and I took him at face value, never realising what a diamond had crossed my path.
Men and women often make snap decisions about whether they are attracted to a person or not. Perhaps we would all find many more people to our liking if we would just give them a chance beyond the first meeting. Food for thought …
Visit my website to find out more about how to meet quality partners.
I nearly fell into this trap when I met my current partner, with whom I am very happy. When I first met him I thought (erroneously) that he was not my type, and more or less discouraged him from contacting me. It was a year later that we met again, and then I was more willing to give him the time of day, only to realise he was almost exactly what I had always been looking for in very many ways! The first time I met him he did not show all his cards, and I took him at face value, never realising what a diamond had crossed my path.
Men and women often make snap decisions about whether they are attracted to a person or not. Perhaps we would all find many more people to our liking if we would just give them a chance beyond the first meeting. Food for thought …
Visit my website to find out more about how to meet quality partners.
Saturday, May 9, 2009
Never Be Hasty
So often it happens that someone comes onto my books and is really in a hurry to meet someone special. That is when red flags start waving in my head and I realise that this person is on the wrong track. While it is true that my clients often do pair up quickly, it is not a good thing when someone is hasty.
When you want to meet someone quickly, you are likely to make snap decisions which are not based on a good foundation. You do not get to know your partner well before committing to a relationship and this can lead to big regrets later. It is also likely that there are things you have not sorted out in your own life, which is essential before committing to a relationship.
When my clients relax and take time with their dating, it’s almost as if they get into a kind of “flow”, and things they want seem to come naturally to them. If they are anxious and in a hurry, their partners seem to flee from them.
So sort out in your mind what is bothering you, and approach dating without being too hung up on results or outcomes. Have fun and enjoy each moment for what it is, and your dating will take care of itself.
Visit my website to find out more about this sensible way of going about dating.
When you want to meet someone quickly, you are likely to make snap decisions which are not based on a good foundation. You do not get to know your partner well before committing to a relationship and this can lead to big regrets later. It is also likely that there are things you have not sorted out in your own life, which is essential before committing to a relationship.
When my clients relax and take time with their dating, it’s almost as if they get into a kind of “flow”, and things they want seem to come naturally to them. If they are anxious and in a hurry, their partners seem to flee from them.
So sort out in your mind what is bothering you, and approach dating without being too hung up on results or outcomes. Have fun and enjoy each moment for what it is, and your dating will take care of itself.
Visit my website to find out more about this sensible way of going about dating.
Sunday, April 26, 2009
Men and Women Desire Different Things
This is a topic about which I could write reams! Men and women are so different in their outlook and their approach.
Men are very visually oriented. They will usually make up their minds within 30 seconds whether they are interested in a woman or not. This is based on the woman’s appearance and whether she appeals to him or not. They actually admit that they look at things like personality and character later. (Often too late!)
A woman is likely to give a man a few chances. She will wait to see how he behaves in certain circumstances and how he treats her before she finally makes up her mind. She often doesn’t mind if he is a bit bald or if he has a bit of a tummy. It is important to her that he is kind and that he makes her laugh.
It is my job to put these two sexes together! I must, however, be doing something right as I have had many, many marriages in the 12 years that Perfect Strangers has been in existence, and many more cases where people have paired off and are still together! Visit my website to find out more about this exciting way to meet your soulmate.
Men are very visually oriented. They will usually make up their minds within 30 seconds whether they are interested in a woman or not. This is based on the woman’s appearance and whether she appeals to him or not. They actually admit that they look at things like personality and character later. (Often too late!)
A woman is likely to give a man a few chances. She will wait to see how he behaves in certain circumstances and how he treats her before she finally makes up her mind. She often doesn’t mind if he is a bit bald or if he has a bit of a tummy. It is important to her that he is kind and that he makes her laugh.
It is my job to put these two sexes together! I must, however, be doing something right as I have had many, many marriages in the 12 years that Perfect Strangers has been in existence, and many more cases where people have paired off and are still together! Visit my website to find out more about this exciting way to meet your soulmate.
Monday, April 13, 2009
You don't have to be desperate to join a dating service
Most people are under the impression that when you join a dating service, you are desperate. Nothing could be further from the truth! The people who join my dating service, Perfect Strangers, are all of a good calibre. They are busy professionals and successful entrepreneurs who really do not have the time to look for partners on their own. They lead full lives and are busy all day, and do not want to join a club of some sort on the off chance that they might meet a partner one day. After work they are tired and do not have the energy or inclination to go to a bar or a pub to meet someone.
It’s all about convenience. Joining Perfect Strangers saves you time. You attend an interview, after which you are supplied with a steady stream of carefully screened potential partners. All you need to do is phone your date and turn up at the arranged place at the correct time. That is why people join Perfect Strangers, because it is so simple, time saving, convenient and discreet.
Visit my website to find out more about this stunning new way to meet people.
It’s all about convenience. Joining Perfect Strangers saves you time. You attend an interview, after which you are supplied with a steady stream of carefully screened potential partners. All you need to do is phone your date and turn up at the arranged place at the correct time. That is why people join Perfect Strangers, because it is so simple, time saving, convenient and discreet.
Visit my website to find out more about this stunning new way to meet people.
Friday, March 27, 2009
Get out of your comfort zone!
At some stage or other, most of us are in a rut when it comes to our love lives. It is very comfortable to stay just where we are and watch the world go by. Unfortunately this will not bring us any closer to our dream of having someone special.
Like with anything else in this life, if we want something worthwhile, we have to make the effort. Make the effort to be our most attractive selves and make the effort to find a way of meeting partners and then go out and do it. Why oh why do we procrastinate so much?
Sometimes the variety of ways in which we can meet someone is so vast, that this itself paralyses us: we don’t know where to start. Within my very own service, I find that people who join the club often feel very apprehensive the first couple of times they go out and meet the partners I provide for them. Then after a few dates, they say “Why didn’t I do this ages ago? It is so easy and convenient and there is nothing to it!” And usually very soon they have made a few friends and are on their way to meeting their soulmate.
So don’t keep putting it off. Make that move that will bring you what you want. Visit my website to make use of a very simple and timesaving way to meet potential partners and never look back!
Like with anything else in this life, if we want something worthwhile, we have to make the effort. Make the effort to be our most attractive selves and make the effort to find a way of meeting partners and then go out and do it. Why oh why do we procrastinate so much?
Sometimes the variety of ways in which we can meet someone is so vast, that this itself paralyses us: we don’t know where to start. Within my very own service, I find that people who join the club often feel very apprehensive the first couple of times they go out and meet the partners I provide for them. Then after a few dates, they say “Why didn’t I do this ages ago? It is so easy and convenient and there is nothing to it!” And usually very soon they have made a few friends and are on their way to meeting their soulmate.
So don’t keep putting it off. Make that move that will bring you what you want. Visit my website to make use of a very simple and timesaving way to meet potential partners and never look back!
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