Isn’t it ironical that whenever we are anxious to have something, it just seems to run away from us all the time? In a similar vein, whenever we have felt ready to meet our soulmate, we are so impatient to do so, and we seem to find that despite how hard we try, our dating results in failure after failure.
I always tell my members to relax about dating and to just have fun. They should not be so keen to have results when they date, but just enjoy each moment for what it brings. I find that when they have this attitude, things somehow seem to fall into place, they enjoy themselves, and when the time is right, their soulmate just seems to fall into their lap!
© 2009 Marilyn Welch
Would you love to meet your soulmate this coming year? If you have read through my website thoroughly and feel that you would like to work with me, contact me for a FREE, no-obligation “Find Your Soulmate” session. We can then see what Perfect Strangers can do for you and get you started to meet the partner of your dreams. I am looking forward to hearing from you!
You are welcome to email Marilyn Welch at info@perfectstrangers.co.za.
Wednesday, December 7, 2011
Thursday, December 1, 2011
Be happy with yourself
A wise person once said: “If you are happy with who you are, you will be happy with your circumstances.” I would like to take that a step further and say that if you are happy with who you are, you will be happy in your relationships.
As a professional dating service owner, I often come across people who are unhappy and searching. They think that if they meet the “right” person, their troubles will stop and they will be happy. Unfortunately life does not work that way. The Law of Attraction is absolute and what we give out comes back to us. If we give out vibes of being unhappy with ourselves, we will attract people who will magnify our problems and our dissatisfaction will spiral out of control.
We need to be emotionally whole before we start attracting the kind of circumstances and people who will add the best value to our lives. A good place to start is to recognise our strong points and good things in our life and be grateful for them. Once we start focusing on these things, we attract more of them into our lives and before long our lives will change for the better. Each of us has a unique role to play on this earth. Recognising our own greatness is just a start to playing the game of life and winning.
© 2010 Marilyn Welch
Would you love to meet your soulmate this coming year? If you have read through my website thoroughly and feel that you would like to work with me, contact me for a FREE, no-obligation “Find Your Soulmate” session. We can then see what Perfect Strangers can do for you and get you started to meet the partner of your dreams. I am looking forward to hearing from you!
Would you like to use this article? You may if you include the following paragraph with the article: Marilyn Welch is the owner of Perfect Strangers Professional Introduction Service and a sought after Relationship Mentor specialising in dating skills. You can read more of her articles at www.perfectstrangersdating.blogspot.com and download her Free Special Report “Three Ways to Finding the Soulmate of Your Dreams” by going to her website, www.perfectstrangers.co.za and sending her your details.
You are welcome to email Marilyn Welch at info@perfectstrangers.co.za.
As a professional dating service owner, I often come across people who are unhappy and searching. They think that if they meet the “right” person, their troubles will stop and they will be happy. Unfortunately life does not work that way. The Law of Attraction is absolute and what we give out comes back to us. If we give out vibes of being unhappy with ourselves, we will attract people who will magnify our problems and our dissatisfaction will spiral out of control.
We need to be emotionally whole before we start attracting the kind of circumstances and people who will add the best value to our lives. A good place to start is to recognise our strong points and good things in our life and be grateful for them. Once we start focusing on these things, we attract more of them into our lives and before long our lives will change for the better. Each of us has a unique role to play on this earth. Recognising our own greatness is just a start to playing the game of life and winning.
© 2010 Marilyn Welch
Would you love to meet your soulmate this coming year? If you have read through my website thoroughly and feel that you would like to work with me, contact me for a FREE, no-obligation “Find Your Soulmate” session. We can then see what Perfect Strangers can do for you and get you started to meet the partner of your dreams. I am looking forward to hearing from you!
Would you like to use this article? You may if you include the following paragraph with the article: Marilyn Welch is the owner of Perfect Strangers Professional Introduction Service and a sought after Relationship Mentor specialising in dating skills. You can read more of her articles at www.perfectstrangersdating.blogspot.com and download her Free Special Report “Three Ways to Finding the Soulmate of Your Dreams” by going to her website, www.perfectstrangers.co.za and sending her your details.
You are welcome to email Marilyn Welch at info@perfectstrangers.co.za.
Thursday, November 24, 2011
Be content with what you have
We seem to spend our entire lives searching and striving for what we perceive we do not have. These days we are bombarded with stimuli urging us to buy this, do that, etc. We are seldom encouraged to take stock of what we have and learn to be content with it.
The same goes for our relationships. We always feel there is something missing or that maybe someone else will do it better for us. No. No. No. If we step back, count our blessings and take time to be sincerely grateful for what we have, the universe is more likely to give us more of those good things.
Perhaps now is the time to jump off that hamster wheel, break out and LIVE HAPPILY IN THE NOW. Quit thinking of yesterday or tomorrow, just be happy for what is happening now. Learn to appreciate your partner and enjoy his/her company NOW. Now is all we have. Live your relationship to the full so that you will never have regrets. Your partner will love you for it!
If you are single at the moment, structure your life in such a way that you thoroughly enjoy it. Learn to be happy with what you already have. This contentment is more likely to attract a good partner than an attitude of dissatisfaction. Remember that your mindset is constantly giving off signals to the universe and according to the Law of Attraction, you will attract what you think most about. Food for thought …
© 2010 Marilyn Welch
Would you love to meet your soulmate this coming year? If you have read through my website thoroughly and feel that you would like to work with me, contact me for a FREE, no-obligation “Find Your Soulmate” session. We can then see what Perfect Strangers can do for you and get you started to meet the partner of your dreams. I am looking forward to hearing from you!
Would you like to use this article? You may if you include the following paragraph with the article: Marilyn Welch is the owner of Perfect Strangers Professional Introduction Service and a sought after Relationship Mentor specialising in dating skills. You can read more of her articles at www.perfectstrangersdating.blogspot.com and download her Free Special Report “Three Ways to Finding the Soulmate of Your Dreams” by going to her website, www.perfectstrangers.co.za and sending her your details.
You are welcome to email Marilyn Welch at info@perfectstrangers.co.za.
The same goes for our relationships. We always feel there is something missing or that maybe someone else will do it better for us. No. No. No. If we step back, count our blessings and take time to be sincerely grateful for what we have, the universe is more likely to give us more of those good things.
Perhaps now is the time to jump off that hamster wheel, break out and LIVE HAPPILY IN THE NOW. Quit thinking of yesterday or tomorrow, just be happy for what is happening now. Learn to appreciate your partner and enjoy his/her company NOW. Now is all we have. Live your relationship to the full so that you will never have regrets. Your partner will love you for it!
If you are single at the moment, structure your life in such a way that you thoroughly enjoy it. Learn to be happy with what you already have. This contentment is more likely to attract a good partner than an attitude of dissatisfaction. Remember that your mindset is constantly giving off signals to the universe and according to the Law of Attraction, you will attract what you think most about. Food for thought …
© 2010 Marilyn Welch
Would you love to meet your soulmate this coming year? If you have read through my website thoroughly and feel that you would like to work with me, contact me for a FREE, no-obligation “Find Your Soulmate” session. We can then see what Perfect Strangers can do for you and get you started to meet the partner of your dreams. I am looking forward to hearing from you!
Would you like to use this article? You may if you include the following paragraph with the article: Marilyn Welch is the owner of Perfect Strangers Professional Introduction Service and a sought after Relationship Mentor specialising in dating skills. You can read more of her articles at www.perfectstrangersdating.blogspot.com and download her Free Special Report “Three Ways to Finding the Soulmate of Your Dreams” by going to her website, www.perfectstrangers.co.za and sending her your details.
You are welcome to email Marilyn Welch at info@perfectstrangers.co.za.
Thursday, November 17, 2011
Appreciate your partner's energies
Running my professional dating service, Perfect Strangers, has taught me many things. One of the things I have become increasingly aware of over the years is the significant difference in energies that men and women live out.
Women are the nurturers and caregivers, but they tend to become too serious and nit-picking. They can also be calculating. Their feelings are easily hurt.
Men are the hunters and providers. They live more in the moment. They have a more casual approach to life and tend to bring humour to a situation.
If we have too many people of the same sex people in our lives, we tend to get slightly out of balance. That is one of the reasons why we enjoy dating and relationships so much. It provides a totally different energy to our day-to-day life and thus makes things a lot more interesting.
I remember when my husband passed away four years ago. I was left alone in my house with my old female dog, an old female cat and a young male cat. I was feeling a bit like an old woman myself at the time, and I cannot tell you how refreshing it was to have my young male cat in the house. I was so starved of living without the human male energy that my husband used to provide, that I developed a strong appreciation for my little cat. I found his approach to life quite delightful, and very different to mine. This made me more aware of male energies in general, and what an important contribution our sexual energies are to our partners.
So be aware of the spiritual/sexual energies your partner brings to your relationship. Appreciate the differences between you and don’t wish that your partner could be more like you!
© 2010 Marilyn Welch
Would you love to meet your soulmate this coming year? If you have read through my website thoroughly and feel that you would like to work with me, contact me for a FREE, no-obligation “Find Your Soulmate” session. We can then see what Perfect Strangers can do for you and get you started to meet the partner of your dreams. I am looking forward to hearing from you!
Would you like to use this article? You may if you include the following paragraph with the article: Marilyn Welch is the owner of Perfect Strangers Professional Introduction Service and a sought after Relationship Coach specialising in dating skills. You can read more of her articles at www.perfectstrangersdating.blogspot.com and download her Free Special Report “Three Ways to Finding the Soulmate of Your Dreams” by going to her website, www.perfectstrangers.co.za and sending her your details.
You are welcome to email Marilyn Welch at info@perfectstrangers.co.za.
Women are the nurturers and caregivers, but they tend to become too serious and nit-picking. They can also be calculating. Their feelings are easily hurt.
Men are the hunters and providers. They live more in the moment. They have a more casual approach to life and tend to bring humour to a situation.
If we have too many people of the same sex people in our lives, we tend to get slightly out of balance. That is one of the reasons why we enjoy dating and relationships so much. It provides a totally different energy to our day-to-day life and thus makes things a lot more interesting.
I remember when my husband passed away four years ago. I was left alone in my house with my old female dog, an old female cat and a young male cat. I was feeling a bit like an old woman myself at the time, and I cannot tell you how refreshing it was to have my young male cat in the house. I was so starved of living without the human male energy that my husband used to provide, that I developed a strong appreciation for my little cat. I found his approach to life quite delightful, and very different to mine. This made me more aware of male energies in general, and what an important contribution our sexual energies are to our partners.
So be aware of the spiritual/sexual energies your partner brings to your relationship. Appreciate the differences between you and don’t wish that your partner could be more like you!
© 2010 Marilyn Welch
Would you love to meet your soulmate this coming year? If you have read through my website thoroughly and feel that you would like to work with me, contact me for a FREE, no-obligation “Find Your Soulmate” session. We can then see what Perfect Strangers can do for you and get you started to meet the partner of your dreams. I am looking forward to hearing from you!
Would you like to use this article? You may if you include the following paragraph with the article: Marilyn Welch is the owner of Perfect Strangers Professional Introduction Service and a sought after Relationship Coach specialising in dating skills. You can read more of her articles at www.perfectstrangersdating.blogspot.com and download her Free Special Report “Three Ways to Finding the Soulmate of Your Dreams” by going to her website, www.perfectstrangers.co.za and sending her your details.
You are welcome to email Marilyn Welch at info@perfectstrangers.co.za.
Friday, November 11, 2011
Friday, November 4, 2011
Accept your partner as they are
Sometimes in the course of my work, I am confronted with the fact that people want their partners to change. Of course, no one will ever be 100% what you are looking for, but there comes a time when you need to weigh up all the factors and decide to be happy with the partner you have, if you decide to stay with them.
One also needs to remember, if you want someone to change, you yourself need to change first before you can expect your partner to do any changing. Once they see that you are willing to put in an effort, they are far more likely to put in an effort themselves.
The people who irritate you are often your best life teachers. Usually the thing that gets to you is something in the depths of your very own persona that you do not like. It is your partner who is reflecting this to you, and that is often why you want them to change!
If you let go of your own issues, you will also find that it is easier to accept your partner as they are. Serenity will then surround you and you will find it easier to be grateful for this person. This state of mind will transmigrate into other areas in your life and you will be more content with life in general.
This is also a chance to practice some unconditional love. This is the kind of love you usually crave for yourself. What you give out comes back to you, so this is the best way to get what you want.
© 2009 Marilyn Welch
I am making a Christmas special once-off offer to clients who enrol with Perfect Strangers between now and 31 December 2011: In addition to their normal membership, each client will also receive:
a) 20 Written Laser “Prepare to Meet Your Soulmate” Coaching sessions (one per week in your personal email inbox - Value R897-00). These inspiring teachings will coach you through any stumbling blocks you may experience in attracting and keeping the love of your life. (This will be the first time I am publishing these teachings!)
b) Each client will receive 2 extra months on their membership which will give them an additional window to meet their soulmate.
NB: The first 20 clients who enrol will, in addition, each receive a fabulous surprise bonus from me (Value R300). Remember to ask for this bonus when you apply.
Make use of this special offer before 31 December 2011 by contacting me for a FREE one-hour “Find Your Soulmate” session. I am looking forward to hearing from you.
Marilyn Welch can also be contacted on 0825598322 or at info@perfectstrangers.co.za.
One also needs to remember, if you want someone to change, you yourself need to change first before you can expect your partner to do any changing. Once they see that you are willing to put in an effort, they are far more likely to put in an effort themselves.
The people who irritate you are often your best life teachers. Usually the thing that gets to you is something in the depths of your very own persona that you do not like. It is your partner who is reflecting this to you, and that is often why you want them to change!
If you let go of your own issues, you will also find that it is easier to accept your partner as they are. Serenity will then surround you and you will find it easier to be grateful for this person. This state of mind will transmigrate into other areas in your life and you will be more content with life in general.
This is also a chance to practice some unconditional love. This is the kind of love you usually crave for yourself. What you give out comes back to you, so this is the best way to get what you want.
© 2009 Marilyn Welch
I am making a Christmas special once-off offer to clients who enrol with Perfect Strangers between now and 31 December 2011: In addition to their normal membership, each client will also receive:
a) 20 Written Laser “Prepare to Meet Your Soulmate” Coaching sessions (one per week in your personal email inbox - Value R897-00). These inspiring teachings will coach you through any stumbling blocks you may experience in attracting and keeping the love of your life. (This will be the first time I am publishing these teachings!)
b) Each client will receive 2 extra months on their membership which will give them an additional window to meet their soulmate.
NB: The first 20 clients who enrol will, in addition, each receive a fabulous surprise bonus from me (Value R300). Remember to ask for this bonus when you apply.
Make use of this special offer before 31 December 2011 by contacting me for a FREE one-hour “Find Your Soulmate” session. I am looking forward to hearing from you.
Marilyn Welch can also be contacted on 0825598322 or at info@perfectstrangers.co.za.
Thursday, October 27, 2011
Keep your balance (Plus Christmas Special Offer)
Often clients who join my professional dating service, Perfect Strangers, tell me that they like to “give their all” in a relationship, or that they like really “spoiling” their partner. Despite this dedicated approach, they have not managed to be in a successful relationship. Why is this?
Too often when we go into a relationship, we find that either we or our partner or giving too much. This is a recipe for failure, as a successful relationship is a balanced relationship, where there is equal giving and receiving.
When we give more than our partners, we like to think we want nothing in return, but actually deep down we want a return on our investment very badly, and in the long term we feel cheated if our giving has not been reciprocated.
Worse still, our partner may see our giving as a means whereby they are controlled, and they may feel obligated to return the favours in some way, which takes away from the freedom of a loving relationship.
Women especially tend to give more in a relationship. It is their natural instinct as nurturers and caregivers. This giving of their all often results in losing the man of their dreams, as men naturally like to be the hunters.
Similarly, a man who spoils his girlfriend or wife disproportionately may find that his favours are not appreciated and that she takes him for granted. The relationship is not in balance and love flies out the window.
This world is not perfect, but in this world everything is in perfect balance. If we want our relationship to be successful, we need to be vigilant about keeping it in good balance. Apply this principle of balance with the giving and receiving in your relationship. You will be in tune with the natural harmony of the universe and your relationship is more likely to go in an upward spiral.
© 2010 Marilyn Welch
I am making a special once-off Christmas offer to clients who enrol with Perfect Strangers between now and 31 December 2011: In addition to their normal membership, each client will also receive:
a) 20 Written Laser "Prepare to Meet Your Soulmate" Coaching sessions (one per week in your personal email inbox)(Value R1500-00). These inspiring teachings will coach you through any stumbling blocks you may experience in attracting and keeping the love of your life. (It will be the first time I am publishing these teachings!)
b) Each client will receive 2 extra months on their membership which will give them an additional window to meet their soulmate
NB: The first 20 clients who enrol will each receive a fabulous surprise bonus (Value R300). Remember to ask for this bonus when you apply.
Make use of this special offer before 31 December 2011 by contacting me for a FREE one-hour “Find Your Soulmate” session. I am looking forward to hearing from you.
Marilyn Welch can be contacted personally on 0825598322 or at info@perfectstrangers.co.za.
Too often when we go into a relationship, we find that either we or our partner or giving too much. This is a recipe for failure, as a successful relationship is a balanced relationship, where there is equal giving and receiving.
When we give more than our partners, we like to think we want nothing in return, but actually deep down we want a return on our investment very badly, and in the long term we feel cheated if our giving has not been reciprocated.
Worse still, our partner may see our giving as a means whereby they are controlled, and they may feel obligated to return the favours in some way, which takes away from the freedom of a loving relationship.
Women especially tend to give more in a relationship. It is their natural instinct as nurturers and caregivers. This giving of their all often results in losing the man of their dreams, as men naturally like to be the hunters.
Similarly, a man who spoils his girlfriend or wife disproportionately may find that his favours are not appreciated and that she takes him for granted. The relationship is not in balance and love flies out the window.
This world is not perfect, but in this world everything is in perfect balance. If we want our relationship to be successful, we need to be vigilant about keeping it in good balance. Apply this principle of balance with the giving and receiving in your relationship. You will be in tune with the natural harmony of the universe and your relationship is more likely to go in an upward spiral.
© 2010 Marilyn Welch
I am making a special once-off Christmas offer to clients who enrol with Perfect Strangers between now and 31 December 2011: In addition to their normal membership, each client will also receive:
a) 20 Written Laser "Prepare to Meet Your Soulmate" Coaching sessions (one per week in your personal email inbox)(Value R1500-00). These inspiring teachings will coach you through any stumbling blocks you may experience in attracting and keeping the love of your life. (It will be the first time I am publishing these teachings!)
b) Each client will receive 2 extra months on their membership which will give them an additional window to meet their soulmate
NB: The first 20 clients who enrol will each receive a fabulous surprise bonus (Value R300). Remember to ask for this bonus when you apply.
Make use of this special offer before 31 December 2011 by contacting me for a FREE one-hour “Find Your Soulmate” session. I am looking forward to hearing from you.
Marilyn Welch can be contacted personally on 0825598322 or at info@perfectstrangers.co.za.
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