A good way to approach a relationship

I am often asked: “Will I recognise my soulmate immediately or will it take time to realise if my partner is my true soulmate?”

My instinct is to go for the second option. So often we meet people we are instantly attracted to, only to find with time that they make a disastrous partner. The chemistry is there in a big way, but so are the multiple problems that go with it. It is important to have some kind of spark between the two of you, but not at such a cost.

If you take the time to get to know someone, something very special can happen between the two of you. The emphasis here is on time and lots of it. The universe has plenty of time and it is a good thing to let it gently unfold. Savour each moment of getting to know someone and don’t be results-oriented. Enjoy what each day brings to your relationship and don’t let issues and baggage drag you down.

If you have this approach, you will have a deep-seated serenity and you will know beyond a shadow of a doubt that your life is perfect and that everything is happening the way it should. You will be content with your life in general and you will attract good things to yourself.

It’s good that we don’t know the future, because this makes life an adventure. It is a friendly universe and things are definitely working out for the good of all of us. This is the only way worth thinking. “As a man thinketh, so is he … “ Whatever you perceive to be true will happen for you. Just trust that this applies to your love life as well and always look at the glass as if it were half full, rather than half empty.

I wish each one of you reading this a truly magnificent partner!

© 2009 Marilyn Welch. Updated 2012

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