If you spot it, you've got it!

Some time ago, I introduced two ladies with similar profiles to exactly the same men. One of the ladies loved the men and had such fun meeting them. The other lady could only find fault with them. I introduced them to exactly the same people! So what was the problem? Was there something wrong with the men?

It just so happens that we see people not as they are, but as we are. We notice things in others that we identify with, things that are part of our own makeup. If there are things in ourselves that we are not happy with, we notice them in others, and these qualities irritate us speechless. People reflect back to us the things we don’t like and we think that they are at fault and not us.

The universe crafts situations in such a way that we are constantly given opportunities to learn and grow as individuals. The people we find fault with are often our best teachers. They give us the opportunities to change for the better and transcend ourselves, if we so choose.

I have lost contact with the fault-finding lady, but the one who had so much fun is now engaged to be married to the man of her dreams! When we see the best in life and people, the universe is eager to give us back what we deserve.

© 2010 Marilyn Welch. Updated 2012.

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