Everything happens for the best

As a professional dating service owner, I speak to many people who have regrets about how their previous relationships have panned out. In my previous blog, I told the story of Jill and Jeremy* whose relationship never worked out. For a long time Jill had big regrets about what happened and kept playing scenes over and over again in her mind about how things could have worked out if she had handled them differently. She went from being obsessed about her future to being absorbed in the past.

Recently Jill met someone very special and was determined to do things differently this time. She came to me for coaching as she felt she needed some dating and relationship advice. She is now focusing on enjoying every moment with her new boyfriend and is determined not to be results oriented in this relationship. She feels he is much better suited to her than Jeremy was and sees that her breakup with Jeremy happened for the best. She now believes that everything always works out for the best. (Even the Bible tells us this!) She tells me that even if her present relationship does not work out, she will see it as a blessing in disguise and will wait confidently and patiently for the universe to bring her the right man. When she spoke to me a few days ago about her new frame of mind, I could not believe it was the same person, so dramatic has been the transformation since we started the coaching. Such is the power of living in the moment! © 2010

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