Learn to enjoy your own company

We all dream of the day that we will have a special partner who will keep us company through thick and thin. We feel somehow that he or she will complete us, make us whole, and that we will never be lonely again.

That may be true, but before we start looking for that partner, it would be a very good idea if we could learn to enjoy our own company first. Once we have a good self-image, and a certain degree of self-confidence, it is then usually easier to amuse ourselves when we are alone. We have then (hopefully) developed some good interests and maybe we even have a few passions that we are fulfilling. This makes us interesting people, people with a mission, who will then easily draw the right partner to us via the law of attraction.

The law of attraction is like a magnet, so if we desire to have good company, we must be good company ourselves and know how to keep ourselves busy with worthwhile endeavours. Then we have earned the right to have a partner who is also good company.

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How does one handle rejection?

One of the most common things you will encounter when you are dating is rejection. The important thing with rejection is not to take it personally. The reason you are rejected has usually 100% to do with the other person and their particular frame of reference and almost NOTHING to do with you at all. There will always be people who like you just the way you are, and at the same time there will always be people who find fault with you. I see this happening with my clients all the time. As many as there are people, there will be different opinions about them. These opinions have nothing to do with you, it is just how people perceive you, according to their own unique place where they are coming from. You remain unchanged, whilst all around you, different people perceive you differently. Therefore one should not take other people’s opinions, whether good or bad, too seriously. So don’t be discouraged if you encounter rejection, simply move on to the next person to meet.

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