Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Men and Women Differ

Men and women differ in many ways, but two of the ways they differ are brought home to me very often:

Women are much more particular than men. Think of it. If you line up a whole lot of women against a wall and ask men to choose, they will find it very difficult, as they will like a lot of the women. Just line up a whole lot of men against a wall and ask women to choose, and they will only select one or two from the whole lot. This happens in nature as well.

Women commit to a relationship far quicker than men do. So often it happens that a man and a woman are dating on my database and one day the woman phones me and says she no longer wants to meet any more men because she and x are now seeing each other. Very often x phones me soon after to ask for another date!

It is a good thing that we are different - it makes life interesting!

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Thursday, July 2, 2009

Love the person you find

We all find it easy to fall in love. It is such a euphoric experience. Everything seems to come naturally and we are swept away with our giddy feelings. Unfortunately this experience does not last. There comes a time when the things we once found so endearing in our partner now start to irritate us, and the person we once elevated falls from the platform we put them on.

We think we will gain happiness once more by finding someone else, or turning to a new hobby or worse, alcahol or drugs. Only to find that some time later, we are once again in the same boat, disillusioned and looking for something new.

Is it not better to learn to love the person you find? Love inevitably sends us someone who will remind us of our issues that we need to work through and there is no point in running away, as the next person we meet will invariably bring up those same issues. Better to work through these issues for once and for all and to have loved someone through thick and thin at the end of the day ... That someone that you once thought was such a problem may just turn out to be your soulmate and the partner of your dreams!

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