Recognise Your Soulmate

Most of us tend to think that when we meet our soulmate, a siren is going to sound and fireworks will fill the sky! Most of the time, however, this does not happen. A soulmate is someone we want to spend the rest of our lives with and one has to be very careful about choosing this person.

Appearance is a big factor when we initially meet, but time reveals who the real person is, and this is the person we must make up our minds about. As time goes by, you build up a shared history of good times and bad. You get into habits and routines and slowly but surely life has a way of pointing you in the direction which is right for you.

It is important to live in the present with this person and enjoy each moment. It is not a good idea to be results oriented. Do not try to push situations, but just relax and let the universe gradually lead you to where you are meant to be.

I wish you luck in finding this very special person!

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The Role of Predictability in a Relationship

The word "predictable" carries with it a slightly negative connotation. We tend to think of predictable people as slightly boring and we do not want others to think they have completely sussed us out.

It is, however, important to be predictable to some degree in our romantic relationship. For example, we all want our partner to be reliable, punctual, honest, dependable, etc., and these are all qualities we would do well to cultivate in ourselves.

However, to keep a relationship interesting and keep our partner enthralled, we have to sometimes do or say the unexpected thing. Romance thrives on excitement and novelty, and we should bring this to our relationship as much as we can.

The trick is to keep a balance when it comes to being predictable, and this we can all do.

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