We seem to spend our entire lives searching and striving for what we perceive we do not have. These days we are bombarded with stimuli urging us to buy this, do that, etc. We are seldom encouraged to take stock of what we have and learn to be content with it.
The same goes for our relationships. We always feel there is something missing or that maybe someone else will do it better for us. No. No. No. If we step back, count our blessings and take time to be sincerely grateful for what we have, the universe is more likely to give us more of those good things.
Perhaps now is the time to jump off that hamster wheel, break out and LIVE HAPPILY IN THE NOW. Quit thinking of yesterday or tomorrow, just be happy for what is happening now. Learn to appreciate your partner and enjoy his/her company NOW. Now is all we have. Live your relationship to the full so that you will never have regrets. Your partner will love you for it!
If you are single at the moment, structure your life in such a way that you thoroughly enjoy it. Learn to be happy with what you already have. This contentment is more likely to attract a good partner than an attitude of dissatisfaction. Remember that your mindset is constantly giving off signals to the universe and according to the Law of Attraction, you will attract what you think most about. Food for thought …
© 2010 Marilyn Welch
Would you love to meet your soulmate this coming year? If you have read through my website thoroughly and feel that you would like to work with me, contact me for a FREE, no-obligation “Find Your Soulmate” session. We can then see what Perfect Strangers can do for you and get you started to meet the partner of your dreams. I am looking forward to hearing from you!
Would you like to use this article? You may if you include the following paragraph with the article: Marilyn Welch is the owner of Perfect Strangers Professional Introduction Service and a sought after Relationship Mentor specialising in dating skills. You can read more of her articles at www.perfectstrangersdating.blogspot.com and download her Free Special Report “Three Ways to Finding the Soulmate of Your Dreams” by going to her website, www.perfectstrangers.co.za and sending her your details.
You are welcome to email Marilyn Welch at info@perfectstrangers.co.za.
Thursday, November 24, 2011
Thursday, November 17, 2011
Appreciate your partner's energies
Running my professional dating service, Perfect Strangers, has taught me many things. One of the things I have become increasingly aware of over the years is the significant difference in energies that men and women live out.
Women are the nurturers and caregivers, but they tend to become too serious and nit-picking. They can also be calculating. Their feelings are easily hurt.
Men are the hunters and providers. They live more in the moment. They have a more casual approach to life and tend to bring humour to a situation.
If we have too many people of the same sex people in our lives, we tend to get slightly out of balance. That is one of the reasons why we enjoy dating and relationships so much. It provides a totally different energy to our day-to-day life and thus makes things a lot more interesting.
I remember when my husband passed away four years ago. I was left alone in my house with my old female dog, an old female cat and a young male cat. I was feeling a bit like an old woman myself at the time, and I cannot tell you how refreshing it was to have my young male cat in the house. I was so starved of living without the human male energy that my husband used to provide, that I developed a strong appreciation for my little cat. I found his approach to life quite delightful, and very different to mine. This made me more aware of male energies in general, and what an important contribution our sexual energies are to our partners.
So be aware of the spiritual/sexual energies your partner brings to your relationship. Appreciate the differences between you and don’t wish that your partner could be more like you!
© 2010 Marilyn Welch
Would you love to meet your soulmate this coming year? If you have read through my website thoroughly and feel that you would like to work with me, contact me for a FREE, no-obligation “Find Your Soulmate” session. We can then see what Perfect Strangers can do for you and get you started to meet the partner of your dreams. I am looking forward to hearing from you!
Would you like to use this article? You may if you include the following paragraph with the article: Marilyn Welch is the owner of Perfect Strangers Professional Introduction Service and a sought after Relationship Coach specialising in dating skills. You can read more of her articles at www.perfectstrangersdating.blogspot.com and download her Free Special Report “Three Ways to Finding the Soulmate of Your Dreams” by going to her website, www.perfectstrangers.co.za and sending her your details.
You are welcome to email Marilyn Welch at info@perfectstrangers.co.za.
Women are the nurturers and caregivers, but they tend to become too serious and nit-picking. They can also be calculating. Their feelings are easily hurt.
Men are the hunters and providers. They live more in the moment. They have a more casual approach to life and tend to bring humour to a situation.
If we have too many people of the same sex people in our lives, we tend to get slightly out of balance. That is one of the reasons why we enjoy dating and relationships so much. It provides a totally different energy to our day-to-day life and thus makes things a lot more interesting.
I remember when my husband passed away four years ago. I was left alone in my house with my old female dog, an old female cat and a young male cat. I was feeling a bit like an old woman myself at the time, and I cannot tell you how refreshing it was to have my young male cat in the house. I was so starved of living without the human male energy that my husband used to provide, that I developed a strong appreciation for my little cat. I found his approach to life quite delightful, and very different to mine. This made me more aware of male energies in general, and what an important contribution our sexual energies are to our partners.
So be aware of the spiritual/sexual energies your partner brings to your relationship. Appreciate the differences between you and don’t wish that your partner could be more like you!
© 2010 Marilyn Welch
Would you love to meet your soulmate this coming year? If you have read through my website thoroughly and feel that you would like to work with me, contact me for a FREE, no-obligation “Find Your Soulmate” session. We can then see what Perfect Strangers can do for you and get you started to meet the partner of your dreams. I am looking forward to hearing from you!
Would you like to use this article? You may if you include the following paragraph with the article: Marilyn Welch is the owner of Perfect Strangers Professional Introduction Service and a sought after Relationship Coach specialising in dating skills. You can read more of her articles at www.perfectstrangersdating.blogspot.com and download her Free Special Report “Three Ways to Finding the Soulmate of Your Dreams” by going to her website, www.perfectstrangers.co.za and sending her your details.
You are welcome to email Marilyn Welch at info@perfectstrangers.co.za.
Friday, November 11, 2011
Friday, November 4, 2011
Accept your partner as they are
Sometimes in the course of my work, I am confronted with the fact that people want their partners to change. Of course, no one will ever be 100% what you are looking for, but there comes a time when you need to weigh up all the factors and decide to be happy with the partner you have, if you decide to stay with them.
One also needs to remember, if you want someone to change, you yourself need to change first before you can expect your partner to do any changing. Once they see that you are willing to put in an effort, they are far more likely to put in an effort themselves.
The people who irritate you are often your best life teachers. Usually the thing that gets to you is something in the depths of your very own persona that you do not like. It is your partner who is reflecting this to you, and that is often why you want them to change!
If you let go of your own issues, you will also find that it is easier to accept your partner as they are. Serenity will then surround you and you will find it easier to be grateful for this person. This state of mind will transmigrate into other areas in your life and you will be more content with life in general.
This is also a chance to practice some unconditional love. This is the kind of love you usually crave for yourself. What you give out comes back to you, so this is the best way to get what you want.
© 2009 Marilyn Welch
I am making a Christmas special once-off offer to clients who enrol with Perfect Strangers between now and 31 December 2011: In addition to their normal membership, each client will also receive:
a) 20 Written Laser “Prepare to Meet Your Soulmate” Coaching sessions (one per week in your personal email inbox - Value R897-00). These inspiring teachings will coach you through any stumbling blocks you may experience in attracting and keeping the love of your life. (This will be the first time I am publishing these teachings!)
b) Each client will receive 2 extra months on their membership which will give them an additional window to meet their soulmate.
NB: The first 20 clients who enrol will, in addition, each receive a fabulous surprise bonus from me (Value R300). Remember to ask for this bonus when you apply.
Make use of this special offer before 31 December 2011 by contacting me for a FREE one-hour “Find Your Soulmate” session. I am looking forward to hearing from you.
Marilyn Welch can also be contacted on 0825598322 or at info@perfectstrangers.co.za.
One also needs to remember, if you want someone to change, you yourself need to change first before you can expect your partner to do any changing. Once they see that you are willing to put in an effort, they are far more likely to put in an effort themselves.
The people who irritate you are often your best life teachers. Usually the thing that gets to you is something in the depths of your very own persona that you do not like. It is your partner who is reflecting this to you, and that is often why you want them to change!
If you let go of your own issues, you will also find that it is easier to accept your partner as they are. Serenity will then surround you and you will find it easier to be grateful for this person. This state of mind will transmigrate into other areas in your life and you will be more content with life in general.
This is also a chance to practice some unconditional love. This is the kind of love you usually crave for yourself. What you give out comes back to you, so this is the best way to get what you want.
© 2009 Marilyn Welch
I am making a Christmas special once-off offer to clients who enrol with Perfect Strangers between now and 31 December 2011: In addition to their normal membership, each client will also receive:
a) 20 Written Laser “Prepare to Meet Your Soulmate” Coaching sessions (one per week in your personal email inbox - Value R897-00). These inspiring teachings will coach you through any stumbling blocks you may experience in attracting and keeping the love of your life. (This will be the first time I am publishing these teachings!)
b) Each client will receive 2 extra months on their membership which will give them an additional window to meet their soulmate.
NB: The first 20 clients who enrol will, in addition, each receive a fabulous surprise bonus from me (Value R300). Remember to ask for this bonus when you apply.
Make use of this special offer before 31 December 2011 by contacting me for a FREE one-hour “Find Your Soulmate” session. I am looking forward to hearing from you.
Marilyn Welch can also be contacted on 0825598322 or at info@perfectstrangers.co.za.
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